I'm not feeling Portugal at all. #eurovision
@ehashman .. and I'm going to take it to whatever that place with the globe houses they just showed is. Wonder if you can rent one.
@ehashman I MISS THE TRAINS. I haven't been on a proper train since .. March before last at least. It's the first thing I'm going to do after I get vaccinated.
@ehashman YESSS.. and it doesn't sound like every other Eurovision song :D
@ehashman I keep thinking she's singing Pokerface, but then there's a slight change :/
re: Dutch politics, trans things, medication
re: Dutch politics, trans things, medication
@moiety @emmy Politically, core Dutch values are tolerance, equality, and cooperation. Historically they were merchants (they didn't care about your religion, etc., just does your money spend) and a large proportion of their landmass was built by working together and sharing rights to the resulting land (so there was a lack of land-owning noble families). But just like the US isn't always a melting pot, not all Dutch live up to their values.
re: Dutch politics, trans things, medication
@moiety @emmy Healthcare is a right here. They use an insurance model but it's heavily regulated and subsidized. Here's a good website targeted at internationals: https://h4i.nl/ I don't have a desire to medically transition so I haven't interfaced with that side of things, personally, just heard annecdotes from friends. Seems there can be hiccups and waits, but ultimately your transition is covered financially so that part isn't a problem.
re: Dutch politics, trans things, medication
@moiety @emmy Regarding LGBTQ issues -- NL is a land of contrasts. It was the first country to legalize gay marriage. A few years ago they changed the official train station announcements from "Ladies and gentlemen..." to "Dear travellers..", which, being on the genderqueer spectrum I loved. And I've heard that they will be doing away with gender signifiers on official documents, but it hasn't happened yet. But.. there's also a bible belt here.
re: Dutch politics, trans things, medication
@moiety @emmy Which surprised me -- both in the level of trust of the patient, and the GP being up-front about her limits of scope and knowledge. She referred me to a center when I ultimately couldn't figure out the right dose, and the care there was really amazing. It was a 2 month wait for an appointment at the center.
re: Dutch politics, trans things, medication
@moiety @emmy With my ADHD (I take amphetamine, which is a controlled substance here) there was no pause. There was a few months wait for my official residency (required for insurance) but there was no problem registering before that with a GP and doing a walk-in consult (~€35?). My particular formulation of amphetamine isn't available here, so the GP prescribed what she thought was the closest, and let me adjust the dosage myself.
One of my Airtags tried to get lost in the couch cushions and, look at that. They’re magnetic! Who needs a stitch marker holder? Not me!
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Somehow this is where I ended up on the internet today: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WxbNy9xbJu4&t=6610s
@vfrmedia @wendy @vantablack Lol, I'm from the US so my only experience with UK roundabouts is on our one road trip across the UK yelling at my partner whenever we came to one, "LEFT! LEFT AROUND THE ROUNDABOUT!"
@vfrmedia @wendy @vantablack Rationing should absolutely not be happening - med titration is like eyeglasses. Slightly less or slightly more doesn't help, you need to find the exact correct dose for your particular brain. And med vacations are also problematic because they put you on a dopamine rollercoaster, and how does that not encourage addiction? With correct dosing people actually forget to take their meds w/out a reminder, you are that much not addicted.
@vfrmedia @wendy @vantablack Thing is, when they do studies of US prisons that involve screenings it turns out the prisons are packed with undiagnosed, untreated people with ADHD. It (untreated ADHD specifically) significantly raises your risk of going to prison, and also of divorce, dropping out, career failure, accidents, and early death. Solution isn't to let off everyone with ADHD, but to make sure it is easy for people to get assessed and get treated.
@vfrmedia @wendy @vantablack Ah. Weirdly I actually got less distracted when driving a stick. There are some areas where my brain needs more going on or it gets bored and finds something else to think about, but then I can be doing something simple and if there's loud noises going on I'm in overwhelm. Another good resource, btw, is the ADHD subreddit, surprisingly. It's very well moderated, global, and the archive is packed with personal experiences, resources, and solutions.
@vfrmedia @wendy @vantablack What is a DSG auto box?
@vfrmedia @wendy @vantablack The driving thing is serious. Driving test doesn't matter if you get distracted on the road (and you don't know notice when you're distacted). My meds don't cover my symptoms well enough, so I'm really happy living somewhere I don't need a car, but I'm sensitive to equity issues around this because my grandmother wasn't allowed to drive because of narcolepsy and it hurts your ability to work and care for kids if you live somewhere car-centric.
Things I like:
🌐 Blender
🤖 automation
🤸🏻 wacky sports
🧶 knitting
🌱 gardening
Ik probeer mijn Nederlands te verbeteren, dus praat Nederlands met me 🙂🇳🇱